FamilyLife Blended®with Ron L. Deal
Boycotting Dinner Friday, October 23, 2020
Ron, my teenager is boycotting dinner. Should we make her join us? When a teenager starts protesting something we as parents should both listen and speak. Listen to what they are angry or hurt about. In this case, the father had recently married, and his 17-year-old was taking it pretty hard. But also speak to lead the child with grace. I told the dad, “Tell your daughter she doesn’t have to love her stepmother, but if she wants to eat she needs to show up for dinner with a decent attitude. Meet your daughter half-way and insist that she meet you half-way.”
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