FamilyLife Blended®with Ron L. Deal
How to Undermine the Stepparent Monday, May 27, 2019
And now, three ways to undermine a stepparent. A biological parent wants their spouse—the stepparent—to be successful. But a parent inadvertently undermines the stepparent when they repeatedly defend their child, try to control how close they become, or mediate problems between their spouse and the children. The parent wants to reduce conflict and increase closeness; but it can have the opposite effect. As much as you can, let the stepparent and your children work out their relationship. The bridge they build together is much more stable.
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